Brother Against Brother

 “Brother Against Brother” — this phrase is completely false.

I, Bishajit Debnath, openly challenge anyone on this matter.

Explanation:

Children born from the same mother, or even stepbrothers, never become divided if they are raised with proper morals, correct values, and sound upbringing from their parents.

Let us imagine a family structure like this:

Grandfather and grandmother → father and mother → four children (two sons and two daughters).

In total, it is a happy and prosperous family of eight members.

As the children are born, they grow up over 20–30 years under the careful upbringing of their parents and the love and affection of their grandparents. As the grandparents grow old and retire from work, they spend their time caring for their grandchildren, gradually becoming childlike themselves in old age.

The father takes full responsibility for earning and meeting all financial needs of the family. The mother manages cooking, household work, and plays an essential role in fulfilling the needs of the children. The sons and daughters grow up and complete their education.

After finding suitable grooms, the parents and the entire family arrange the marriages of the two daughters.

Now the family consists of six members.

Due to financial limitations, the two sons could not pursue higher education. Since the father owns a business, he remains the sole source of income for the family.

Nearly thirty years pass in a peaceful, happy, and harmonious family environment. Everyone lives together with love and unity. There are no conflicts or quarrels within the family.

Eventually, the sons reach marriageable age, and the father arranges their marriages. Two daughters-in-law enter the household. Soon, the next generation of the family is born. By this time, the grandparents have passed away. The parents have now grown old, and the two sons are running the father’s business efficiently.

Once again, the family consists of eight members.

The elderly parents spend their time with their grandchildren. Days pass, nights come, and mornings return—life continues smoothly in a happy and peaceful household.

After some time—about three years later—the daughters-in-law who entered the family as guests begin to think about how to separate the household completely, including separate cooking arrangements. Whenever relatives from their parental homes visit, they repeatedly influence their husbands’ minds with ideas about separation and becoming wealthy independently.

These seemingly attractive but destructive thoughts create unrest and chaos within the family.

“This is mine,” “That is yours,” “I won’t do this,” “She won’t do that,” “We won’t live together,” “I will go to my parents’ house.”

Some even threaten suicide if complete separation does not happen. Gradually, they poison their husbands’ minds day by day, turning family life into a living hell.

New dramas begin—refusing to eat, refusing to cook, using filthy language in front of the children. In such circumstances, the mental strength of the parents and sons slowly breaks down. They silently endure the situation.

The two sons and their parents do not want separation under any circumstances.

The elder daughter-in-law remains calm, as she respects and obeys her husband.

But the younger daughter-in-law is aggressive; she does not regard her husband or any family member as human beings.

In such a situation, when all demands are fulfilled yet there is no change in mindset or behavior, circumstances arise where physical violence or abandonment of the wife becomes inevitable.

Only after that does the phrase “Brother against Brother” come into existence.

Therefore, if you read this entire writing carefully, you will surely find the correct answer yourself:

What is true and what is false?

What? Why? How?

Bishajit Debnath

(12.01.2026)